“Born this way” made sense when I was young, I certainly didn’t choose to be gay. But now we know better. There are still unanswered questions, but to speak of being “Born This Way” is to deliberately deceive, speak with ignorance or or retreat into a place of convenience and cowardice. After all, whatever we can blame on jeans can be given licence. True?

I want today’s kids, parents, carers, political leaders (etc) to know what the gay lobby is working overtime to suppress. The life I had did not have to happen.

Here’s the mission: Protect child sexual development and seek out others who will do the same.

For thousands of years, marriage has acted as a quietly spoken but effective referee. For thousands of years it has obstructed, what some see, as the inevitable anarchy-like sexualisation of culture, the deconstruction of the family unit and the destruction of gender roles. Marriage, by it’s nature and definition, has decreed sidelines, rules and standards. It has helped the game of life be played, by allowing all the opportunity to play, the vulnerable a measure of protection and the capable the power to move forward.

Yet the game is not suited to all players, and for many the rules may seem unfair. Even for those who know that healthy marriages hold families and society together, it does not remove the pain of knowing you’ll never get to really play. I know that feeling. Sometimes I’m still there.

When you realize you’re in the middle of a culture war, it’s easy to forget about the people involved. Even those who oppose you are real people – with failings and complexities of life and perspective just like you (and me). They are motivated by real pains, experiences, beliefs and priorities. It is easy to forget that. When something is clearly wrong to one person, it is perhaps inevitable that ‘the perceived enemy’ will appear stupid, selfish, intolerable or hateful. But that is rarely helpful or completely true.

In nations that have already surrendered to homosexual marriage [*1], questions about sexuality receive some disturbing answers. In addition, their laws and programs now normalise homosexuality and further sexual diversities. That will be an inevitable and legal certainty for us also. As U.S. Federal Judges have expressed, once homosexual marriage is introduced, it becomes a moral duty of the state to enforce homosexual normalisation [135] [*2]. This is why the activists want it so badly! [601,602].

Lots of kids question their sexuality. But what happens when young people don’t feel safe to ask the questions? What happens when the answers are one-sided, untruthful or simply withheld? It isn’t pretty!

“The Little Black Book, Queer in the 21st Century” [101] was a textbook / information guide / promotional marketing tool … I’m not sure what to call it. It was provided to middle and high school children in Massachusetts (USA). That means 11 year old and up. The book can be viewed here and offers a glimpse of what LGBTQ [*1] educators and reformers can accomplish once the law becomes their servant.

There is no reason to believe it will be different here – except of course for hollow promises offered by untrustworthy people.