Protecting Child Sexual Development

“Born this way” made sense when I was young, I certainly didn’t choose to be gay. But now we know better. There are still unanswered questions, but to speak of being “Born This Way” is to deliberately deceive, speak with ignorance or or retreat into a place of convenience and cowardice. After all, whatever we can blame on jeans can be given licence. True?

I want today’s kids, parents, carers, political leaders (etc) to know what the gay lobby is working overtime to suppress. The life I had did not have to happen.

Here’s the mission: Protect child sexual development and seek out others who will do the same.

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A Sensible Man’s Story

sensibleman logo 2Don’t be impressed by this gay kid that developed heterosexual desires as an adult. My story is one of being set-up as a child, partly by my home life, but mainly by my culture. I then increasingly took charge of my own pleasures, made my own mistakes and built my own addictions! It’s not impressive! I live with the consequences of my earlier life; both the things that came against me and the things I brought against myself. Yet in living with different thoughts and ways, new neural paths have been built. I have not so much changed, as I have moved forward. It’s not impressive; it’s called being human.

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Serving Truth and Children – Without Apology

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Opening the closet, I conceal my face. I do this to protect other people. It is necessary and it will be done. When the time is right I will leap from my closet (so to speak) and make myself known.

I offer no apology for protecting the vulnerable (and you shouldn’t have to apologise for protecting the vulnerable either). I work for a world where the sexual health of children is a greater priority than the comfort of adults.

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This Project is Closed. The Battle Continues Elsewhere.

Same-sex marriage damages familiesPS: We’re Scaling Back Efforts Here. The Battle Continues Elsewhere.

Those who want truth look for it; sadly, most do not want it. As somebody who is reading these words, you are certainly in a minority. Congratulations!

After weeks of doing what we can as amateurs and volunteers, the decision has been made to reduce our efforts here, though the fight still continues.

There are other websites doing similar things, and to be honest, probably doing it better. Please check out our Links page to find additional resources.

We are not surrendering. We are redeploying our energies in this very important cultural battle. We hope what is here is of benefit to you, and we encourage and pray that you will continue to seek truth, and to make truth known. If this battle is lost, what has happened elsewhere will certainly happen here.

Prepare yourself and humble yourself before God who models the sacrifical love and commitment to truth our society so tragically lacks. We all are laden with personal weakness, and cumulatively as a society, we also feel the pain. The challenges of the future will be more intense than the challenges of this day.

We’ve worked hard to keep the Lord out of the content of these pages as we live in a world where everything must be tolerated (read ‘endorsed’) except Him.

Truth is, He’s been woven into everything presented here, because love always includes truth – and that is who He is. Whatever the outcome of this SSM battle, as a team, we pray you find him!