A Sensible Man’s Departure Letter

Same Sex MarriageDear Reader,

I’m really sorry.

I believe in these people and this cause but I can’t be involved this time around.

As a same-sex attracted men I thought I had a contribution that needed to be made but like other same-sex attracted guys and girls who have stood against the LGBT machinery, I paid a price. I know if they find out who I am they will destroy me, and it feels like I came close last time. 

I want kids to not have to grow up under lies. I was lied to about sexual development, and I experimented and reinforced it as a result. It’s a tough thing growing up in any time with relational deficits in your life. What it would be like now with all the pornography and the way people argue about truth and morals not being real, well that just blows my mind. I’d hate to be a kid nowadays.

But I want them to be spared the pain I had. At the least I want them to have a chance at a better life. At the most, I want them to experience the new life Jesus (and some church communities) provides sincere disciples, the grace he gives but also the reward he provides as you move forward in his strength. Love and peace. 

That’s all.

I have a much better life, but it’s because I found out some Truth and I found some friends and I also realised that there was going to be pain involved. I was willing to pay a price, be humble and my life has been a lot of hard work from the start til now. Before I was exhausted kidding myself with lies I’d come to believe and the life I was trying to live. Later it was pretty tiring having to change. Now I’ve got peace I never had.

I’ve allowed the team to use my old content, even though I requested some changes because I was a much angrier man back then. I’m still angry, but as you get older you get more used to dealing with.  I’ve softened some words, and I’ve backed down on some things that even though they were true people wiser than me have said that some levels of truth just can’t be handled.

So I trust these people, and I ask you to give them a fair hearing. They’re good people and they really do want the best not just for the straight community but also for the same-sex attracted one. People call the them haters but I’ve seen nothing but love. Sure they misunderstand some things, but that’s normal. 

Back when I was helping I used to sit and talk and they would convert my thoughts into articles. I showed them the research I found and asked them to help me communicate in an effective way. This note I’ve asked them to leave raw and simple.

I hope you enjoy what they bring you and I hope whatever value you get from the words I posted years ago is helpful.

Regards and in your service,

A Sensible man


This Project is Closed. The Battle Continues Elsewhere.

Same-sex marriage damages familiesPS: We’re Scaling Back Efforts Here. The Battle Continues Elsewhere.

Those who want truth look for it; sadly, most do not want it. As somebody who is reading these words, you are certainly in a minority. Congratulations!

After weeks of doing what we can as amateurs and volunteers, the decision has been made to reduce our efforts here, though the fight still continues.

There are other websites doing similar things, and to be honest, probably doing it better. Please check out our Links page to find additional resources.

We are not surrendering. We are redeploying our energies in this very important cultural battle. We hope what is here is of benefit to you, and we encourage and pray that you will continue to seek truth, and to make truth known. If this battle is lost, what has happened elsewhere will certainly happen here.

Prepare yourself and humble yourself before God who models the sacrifical love and commitment to truth our society so tragically lacks. We all are laden with personal weakness, and cumulatively as a society, we also feel the pain. The challenges of the future will be more intense than the challenges of this day.

We’ve worked hard to keep the Lord out of the content of these pages as we live in a world where everything must be tolerated (read ‘endorsed’) except Him.

Truth is, He’s been woven into everything presented here, because love always includes truth – and that is who He is. Whatever the outcome of this SSM battle, as a team, we pray you find him!